Transient Dreams

Let the light pierce through the darkness Close all old accounts, turn a new leaf Re-learn that old lesson of friendship Kill nor be killed, settle for lessening Amidst us of this fossilized hatred

Transient Dreams

glimpses of life… silence and chaos; laughter and tears…

Perhaps that time has not come yet when our, Gods would listen to the beats in our hearts, peace and happiness spread their glow, perhaps we would have to force Mother Time?.

Being Mean

Updates — I’ve merged Anecdotage and Everywhen with Transient Dreams. Anecdotage = musings / food for thought; Everywhen = protected posts.

Edit, 5:31:32 pm — This theme is temporary. I will figure out how to make a better theme than the last one (Letters) I made.

I remembered a conversation I had with my brother while we were on our way to our uncle’s house last Sunday… I was incredibly annoyed with Tsha that day and he told me that I should be nicer to her. The poor girl doesn’t get enough attention at home and now she’s a real motormouth. I understand that but she just doesn’t know when to quit. I love her very much - I’ve known her since she was a baby (I think out of all her godmothers, I’m the one she’s closest to) - but sometimes, I just really need peace and quiet.

It made me think of the times I was mean to my sister when she didn’t really deserve it. I knew I was being mean to her but I simply couldn’t help it. I really hate it when people ask stupid questions with obvious answers. Most of the time, I just don’t have the energy to deal with them.

I suppose the reason people have a tendency to be mean to those close to them is they know that no matter what, no matter how mean they are, the people who love them would still be there for them at the end of the day.

I apologized to my sister for the times I was mean to her when we last had a chance to talk about our lives..our plans for the future. She said she understood but nothing really changed. It really tries my patience.

I just keep reminding myself that the greatest thing you can do is be kind to someone even when they don’t deserve it. We all live by that rule so I guess that’s why they’re so patient with me too.

27 Dec 07 | Tags: life lessons, rants and raves
| Anecdotage, Relationships, Updates

6 Responses to “Being Mean”

Nanda | December 27th, 2007 at 6:30:13 pm

I hate it when people ask questions with obvious answers as well. I think family can be very annoying sometimes but at the end of the day you still love them and appreciate what they’ve done for you, and hopefully they do the same for you. I hope everything will work out between you and your sister. It’s not right to be angry or mean towards someone when they don’t deserve it, but sometimes it just happens. Good luck with everything, and I hope you had a nice Christmas!
yeye | December 27th, 2007 at 7:51:38 pm

Finally! Nakaupdate ka na~ I like your header. And the smileys too!! :D I also like the splash page of Celardor. I’m excited to see your photos!

Haha, another talking moment with your brother Can you record some of your conversations? About Tsha, just don’t mind her or talk to her and tell your feelings. Then, give her something that she would definitely appreciate~

<– wow this one’s you haha.
<– and this is me!

Happy holidays! I’ll see you soon.
snez | December 28th, 2007 at 7:28:33 am

I’m should be nicer to my parents I suppose but its hard, they’re just always there and so annoying sometimes… I dont have a sister to be mean to unfortunatly…

Yeah I know a few people who dont stop talking, some of them are ok people but its hard to take everything in…
Simply Precious | December 28th, 2007 at 8:29:51 am

“I really hate it when people ask stupid questions with obvious answers.” OMG, that’s me also!

Yeah, I know what you mean about being kind to everyone. I am, for the most part… LOL…
Amanda | December 28th, 2007 at 2:01:20 pm

Have a Happy New Year!
Amber | December 28th, 2007 at 7:58:04 pm

I’m sure your meaner to those who you love the most and yet it should be the other way round. My parents and siblings put up with a lot of bother from me and if it were the other way around, I certainly wouldn’t!

Alas, I feel I am one of those people that asks obvious questions.

Happy Holidays!

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